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Finally, some real journalists cover AWDTSG

A journalist with ITV News in Northern Ireland recently covered Are We Dating the Same Guy groups. It’s one of the few times a journalist has done the work of joining the groups to see what actually goes on, and interviewing men to hear their stories. From the story, which you can read and viewContinueContinue reading “Finally, some real journalists cover AWDTSG”

Why men should not be vulnerable with women anymore

Don’t be vulnerable with a woman until you know her well enough to know that she would never post about you on Are We Dating the Same Guy groups. And even then, be careful what you share because she might change her mind if you break up with her. Saying “don’t be vulnerable with women”ContinueContinue reading “Why men should not be vulnerable with women anymore”

Calling an Innocent Man a Sex Offender for Laughs

There is so much wrong with these screeenshots (found here), starting with the fact that women think it’s OK to tell tens-of-thousands of strangers about every detail of their dates. If this is what you’re going to do after dates ladies, I think you need to get a consent form first because we did notContinueContinue reading “Calling an Innocent Man a Sex Offender for Laughs”

Where there’s one lie, there’s a thousand lies

Have you ever heard that saying, where there’s one roach there’s a thousand roaches? Read the comments below. Count how many members of this group happen to know of at least one post that was a flat-out lie, or at least wasn’t anything like the whole truth. How many others must there be in theseContinueContinue reading “Where there’s one lie, there’s a thousand lies”

A Call for Screenshots of Men’s AWDTGirl Groups

These groups are wrong. It doesn’t matter which gender is doing it. Men, please don’t join those groups. I know first hand how tempting “let’s show them how it feels” can be when you’re angry and feel helpless to make it stop any other way. But men posting in “are we dating the same girl”ContinueContinue reading “A Call for Screenshots of Men’s AWDTGirl Groups”

What About MEN’s SAFETY?

What about OUR safety? Does it not matter? Are we not human beings too? Here’s a post I came across today on Reddit that is typical of many others I’ve seen. This person was posted in the Columbus, Ohio Are We Dating the Same Guy follow-up group called Columbus Girl Gang. Yea, Gang sounds aboutContinueContinue reading “What About MEN’s SAFETY?”

A Call for AWDTSG Screenshots

We need to flood the internet with screenshots from Are We Dating the Same Guy groups showcasing how despicable they really are. At some point journalists will no longer be able to say it’s mostly about women’s safety. At some point enough guys will find out, and dating apps will be a ghost town forContinueContinue reading “A Call for AWDTSG Screenshots”

Which of these things is not like the others?

To know what you’re being accused of. To defend yourself against accusations (if not to face your accuser). The reasonable expectation of privacy. To know details about the private lives of your neighbors, coworkers, strangers, and any person you match with. I’ll give you a hint. The three that belong can be found as “Rights”ContinueContinue reading “Which of these things is not like the others?”

A theory on how AWDTSG became normalized

One of the reasons I think women don’t take AWDTSG as seriously as they should is because it isn’t a far step beyond what they’ve been doing for years in group chats, DMs on social media, Snapchat and WhatsApp. The difference is one of scale. Because they were primed by years of these other methods,ContinueContinue reading “A theory on how AWDTSG became normalized”

What men are secretly meeting about while women aren’t watching

General consensus seems to be that men in “male support” or “men’s rights” groups are of the toxic variety, which blame all of the world’s problems on women (and often other marginalized groups). You might believe they’re all Andrew-Tate supporting, or incel woman-hating circle jerks. Some are. In that way they are very much likeContinueContinue reading “What men are secretly meeting about while women aren’t watching”

What would a compromise look like? AWDTSG exists for a reason.

If a man harms a woman he should 100% be held accountable. Let’s start with that fact. There are reasons Are We Dating the Same Guy is so popular. One is because women find it entertaining, which is a whole other thing. But the fact that women have good reasons to be afraid of men they don’t know very well can explain the existence of the group in the first place, if not its explosive growth around the world.

Are We Dating the Same Guy Proves Male Rights Don’t Matter

Dating apps have updated their terms to allow screenshots, which we all know means they are OK with AWDTSG. Men’s privacy doesn’t matter. Men are no longer considered worthy of basic human rights like privacy, the right to face their accusers, and the right to defend themselves.

Dating Apps Change Privacy Policy to Allow Screenshots

With no regard for men’s safety and privacy, some of the most popular dating apps have started changing the terms of their privacy policy so men can no longer get women banned for posting their names, photos and other private information on groups like Are We Dating the Same Guy (AWDTSG) on Facebook and elsewhere.

When women trust strangers more than their own intuition

Jessica has been on that many dates, hasn’t noticed any red flags, and STILL has to post this poor guy’s name and photo up in front of fifty-thousand strangers. These women don’t understand boundaries. I hope he found out and ghosted her ass. Congratulations Jessica, you may have just lost yourself a good man. WeContinueContinue reading “When women trust strangers more than their own intuition”